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Title: Big D and me
Post by: heydeerman on August 13, 2006, 08:06:00 PM
Friends,

This divorce has been the lowest of all low points in my life. It has devastating me financilly and emotionally. It has effected every area of my life in ways that i thought I could handle. Still going through it and would appreciate some support. Getting close to the end.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: BenBow on August 13, 2006, 10:06:00 PM
Gone through one and know the grief, anger, guilt, and hopeless feelings. Will continue praying.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: bear1336 on August 14, 2006, 06:19:00 AM
Jim
Keep your faith and the LORD will show you the path and put light back into your life.

In HIS service
Dave
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: TexMex on August 14, 2006, 07:58:00 AM
Jim,
As bear said, keep the faith.
Prayers sent.

God Bless.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: AnointedArcher on August 14, 2006, 09:19:00 AM
Hey Brother my son is going through his second divorce right now and the enemy is doing his best to rob, stel and destroy his life, so this topic is very close to my heart! The key is exactly what Dave mentioned earlier! Focus on the King of Kings; He has made us a promise. Jesus said seek the Kingdom of God FIRST and everything else will fall in line. This is a great time to refocus and charge hard after the Kingdom of God!

Be blessed!
Jeff
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: UKarcher on August 14, 2006, 05:53:00 PM
I recieved my decree absolute just last week, after three years of clawing myself up from where you feel you are now. I was lucky in the process to find a wonderful lady that I should have met twenty years ago. But one thing I believe, is that the whole process has made me a stronger person, and a more understanding one too. My advice is to try and treat it all as a series of challenges for you to overcome. Keep the thought in your mind that she has hurt you all she can and from now on you control your own destiny. And the odd prayer can help too so I send one up for you brother.
Graham
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: heydeerman on August 15, 2006, 08:07:00 AM
Thanks bro's. Could also use some prayer for my body. Hit a deer on my bike sunday night. I was able to walk about a mile to a gas station to get help. Keep in mind I said I walked. Alot of guys who hit deer on a motorcyle cant say that. My left shoulder is messed up as well as my right leg. Possible rotator cuff tear. Nothing broke. Yes I was wearing a helmet. Havent wore one in a long time but put it on that night.

Dave,
thanks for the e-mails. I have been out of commission for a while. Moved out and am in the process of moving my business. Hoped to be done by now but it's a process.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: bayoulongbowman on August 15, 2006, 10:42:00 AM
yep , been there ...it does get better...prayers for ya bud...Mark#78
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: el cazador on August 15, 2006, 11:19:00 PM
Hang in there Jim, we're praying for you.  Hate to here about you accident too, glad you were able to walk away from it.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: Doc Nock on August 16, 2006, 03:15:00 PM
Sounds like the Lord is letting you know that it CAN get worse, but if you continue to lean on Him and Look to HIM, he will see you through it all. Not without some bumps and bruises, like the bike accident, but you will make it!

prayers for peace that passess all understanding!
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: sticshooter on August 20, 2006, 09:56:00 PM
Keep the faith brother. Prayers for you and your Family.<><
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: PaPaFrank on August 21, 2006, 09:05:00 AM
Jim,
    Don't know if you remember me but I certainly want to send along my prayers and best wishes.  I have been where you are and believe me when I say that there is a light at the end of that tunnel.  Best Wishes to you my friend.  Frank
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: venisonburger on August 21, 2006, 02:39:00 PM
Things are pretty tough for you right now, they'll get better, God has a funny way of getting through to you, when we are at our lowest is when we speak to him the most. Speak to him.  VB
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: heydeerman on September 26, 2006, 12:22:00 AM
Divorce is over as of 9/25. Time to move on. A few weeks ago I met a lady and things are going great and starting to look up. Thanks for all the prayers and concern from the Gang.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: TexMex on September 26, 2006, 07:33:00 AM
Good news, been there.

God Bless
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: Shakes.602 on September 26, 2006, 07:37:00 AM
Now is the Time for a  "Do-Over"  and Re-Generate Yourself with Your "New Life!! I have been Divorced for 2 Years from the Last One, and I am Still Picking Up The Pieces, but Pick Up The Pieces  WE MUST!!!
  Just Hold Your Head Up, even when Your Lip Quivers about Your Kids.  They  know Who You Are.
    Good Luck In "Your New Life" My Friend!  :thumbsup:    :campfire:    :archer:
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: Doc Nock on September 26, 2006, 09:22:00 AM
Sure good to hear that things are on the upswing.

Don't forget some of the great thoughts expressed early on about turning more toward God for that source of unending joy...not only on earthly things.

People will come and go in your /our lives, but God is the only constant. He works wonders in our daily lives when we don't see or care to give him the credit.  I'd not have made it the past 2 years were it not for His daily carrying me along the beach of life leaving only that one set of footprints.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: BenBow on September 26, 2006, 09:37:00 AM
Wishing you the best. Prayers sent for wisdom. I might be too cautious but I waited 12 years before starting to look for a friend/wife and have been super blessed with my wife. My feeling is no relationship is better then a bad one.
Praying for the healing to take place in your life after a bad ordeal.
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: UKarcher on September 27, 2006, 02:33:00 AM
That's great news my friend. Be yourself and treat her right, and thank the Lord that the climb up the hill will be made all that easier with a smiling face beside you.
Graham
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: bayoulongbowman on October 07, 2006, 10:41:00 AM
...more prayers ...Marco#78
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: DMaster on October 08, 2006, 08:03:00 AM
Reading through the many posts wishing you well, I see many whom have very discretly offered you advice about seeking God as the ultimate friend and partner.
I won't be as discret as some,
You need Jesus, You need him as LORD of your life.
He can make the crooked places straight, and bring the high places low, but He must be first in your life and commander of your will.
Before you even consider another intimate relationship, you need to get intimate with the Creator.  That's my 2 cents in love.
In His Love and Service,
peace
Title: Re: Big D and me
Post by: Tom Leemans on October 11, 2006, 08:10:00 AM
Been there too. You'll be fine. Just take life a day at a time, just not too seriously. Make sure you do what makes you happy.