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Main Boards => PowWow => Topic started by: Hermon on December 27, 2013, 04:59:00 PM
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When I got married, my wife came with two wonderful kids, a girl and a boy. They lived with us from the age of 5 & 6 until they went grew up and went to college. Neither one of them showed much interest in archery growing up. Gave them opportunities, but it didn't excite them. Not wanting to be a step-dad that forced them to do my hobbies, I just shot when I could and never tried to make them feel bad about not joining in.
Fast forward to one year when the youngest (my stepson) was in college. I came home from work on a Friday afternoon to find him in the back yard with a bow shooting. He had somehow found an interest in archery and had been doing some reading/research. He said that after being in a large college town for a semester, that he needed to unwind and relax, so he was out shooing. Of course I had to go grab another bow and fling a few arrows with him.
His interest has been growing the last few years and he decided that he wanted a "bow made for him" this year. I introduced him to Mike Dunnaway of Wild Horse Creek Bows this summer and now my son in the proud owner of his first custom longbow.
Now a few weeks ago he starts asking about kids bows and such. He has 3 half brothers on his biological father's family. He bought them each a bow, arrows, tabs, etc. Now he is teaching them to shoot and having a blast.
Sometimes we don't think that the things we do are having an impact when they really do.
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Very cool. That must make you feel good,,
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:thumbsup: Pretty cool to see them get involved.
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That's excellent!!
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That's great. Yep, you never know what they will get into sometimes until a little time passes.
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Nice! :thumbsup:
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Bravo Glenn! Not being pushy, yet being supportive when the time came, seems to be the ticket.
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Neat story!
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:goldtooth:
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Now you have a shooting Buddy :thumbsup: :campfire:
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OUTSTANDING
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That's a heartwarming development, indeed. It shows that you were wise not to push it before he'd developed the interest (which goes for all children, I've found, not just step children). More, it shows how important your role in his life is to him, that he chooses to learn archery from you and spedn time with you now that he's found the interest within himself. Merry Christmas, indeed!
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Very nice! :clapper: :clapper: :clapper: :clapper:
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It sound like you were a good influence on him. Good job! :clapper:
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Sounds like you were a great influence , awesome !
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Very cool! :clapper:
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I also found shooting/hunting the best way to unwind in college. Sounds like you planted the seed and it just took a while. Great to hear.
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It's a Great Feeling isn't it! I have 7 grandsons and 3 Grand daughters the youngest is 4. She asked for a bow this year. I bought a little flat fiberglass bow at garage sale for $1 she loves it. I found blow up 3d targets at local outdoor store that you shoot suction cup tipped arrows at. She is deadly at 3 yrs.Lol
CABELAS loves me as I have purchased 3 kids bows and my Kodiak Magnum this year.
Life is good in Central kansas!
Larrydawg