Forget anybody's dogma, just shoot what you want, what you find works best, for your application, within reason.
In the past, my Dougblas fir boar arrows have weighed about 780 grains out of my 75# Wesley Special. They worked beautifully.
Currently, I'm shooting 1130 grain red balau arrows out of the same bow, and they also shoot super nicely. Different application (hope to kill a buffalo).
Actually, back to those 780 grain arrows and that bow... I made my best ever target shot with that combination, hitting a plastic milk bottle perfectly at 100 yards. Wish I could do that every day!