OK forestdweller, gotcha. I shoot Samick Sage 55# and I find it very stable - at least for me - but comparing to my old Ben Pearson Hunter the grip is slimmer. If my problem would have been the grip, I would try bows with meatier grip, or ones that will force the hand to stay in same place every time I get it in my hand - pistol like maybe. I would try a longbow before buying one - especially when the $$ is limited, the disappointment of not getting what you thought will be bigger.