That's tough, Benson. Not helping young people take responsibility and accountability like her mom does, is a definite form of child abuse...and then it manifests itself in the adult child as well. :(
All you can do is lean on her minister's words that God can move mountains. Right now it sounds like the MT Is tween her ears! :eek:
God will lead you as to the right thing to do.
Keep the Son in your eyes!