We are both pretty anchored. But with my wife nothing is standard she had a massive stroke at 18 and is on a blood thinner. She has three aggressive blood clotting disorders. So even small surgerys are a big deal, and can cause a lot of worry.
But we are home and everything seems to be going well this morning, so I am thanking God for that, and for the time that He allow her to carry a child. I know there is a reason He decided to take the child and will one day find out what that reason is, and I take comfort in that.