Jeremy, I feel your pain. On the bright side, pain is a great teacher.
I am assuming that you want some suggestions.
The type of hidden tang construction you have chosen is pretty basic but you have made it more difficult right off by having a tang so wide and that width carries out through it's length. Any imperfections in your drilling will show up in the handle shaping. Remedy: Narrow it by a margin and taper it slightly more.
With the chosen construction, you are limited to drilling and broaching. Perhaps burning if you are careful. These are crude and risky compared to other construction methods. Remedy: Use a mortised tang construction by splitting or purchasing split (book matched) scales. Dark woods almost make the joint go away. This allows open access to the channels and if time and care is taken, this is a good option. More pins are used in this method.
This the most important thing and simply put, "Be Careful." I can see from the pictures why you ground into the epoxy. You have ground the top of the handle more or less flush with the top of the blade and under the handle in the curve, you have ground up past the ricasso. Even if you did a good job on your tang slot, you are in danger of getting into the epoxy. You have not left ANY room for adjustment or correction. I don't have a remedy for this. You just have to "see" it in the knife using the built in boundaries and know that if you cross them, you will get bit. Just as I look at your photo and "see" that you are too far in on top and bottom to be safe, you have to stay away from the boundaries by a safe margin. You start doing this in the forging and grinding of the blade. Build in your safety margins. These are small fractional amounts to begin with so you have to start forging, or at least grinding, in small fractional amounts. Aim small miss small.
Any one of the above adjustments would likely have made the difference. All together they would swing the odds much in your favor.
Another thing I see that might help you to not dig up into the finger area. Get away from the grinder sooner and hand work that area with a round file and sand paper if necessary. Your curve looks like it was made on a round wheel. Is that so? Whether or not it is, the curve is too blunt causing your eye to want to carry the flow on up into the handle material. A sharper curve or, better yet, a changing curve will blend better staying within the boundary of the ricasso bottom. That ricasso/handle line is sacred. Let it tell you where the curve starts. Stay away from it by a safe margin and sneak up on it by gentler means.
Again, you are dealing with small measurements and a blending of parts. The only way to get them to work together is to immerse yourself in the details within your mind to get an understanding of how they all play their part. Then from the beginning, the forging and grinding, set yourself up for success.