That would be and always will be the problem with message boards. You can't type emotion and inflection.
That said. You could google 'til the cows come home. You could watch a tape or DVD until you pass out. It could be spelled out for you, step by step right here. You could even have someone show you how, but you still have to get your hands dirty, shed a little blood here and there, and make plenty of mistakes before you become accomplished at what you do.
In my mind, no one has done more (and would probably deny it
) to give wooden bow building a kick in the pants than Dean Torges. From his articles, to his books, to his video(s), his website, to hands on teaching. He has, no doubt, provided plenty of information for all of us. Information he could have kept to himself. He is a master, but he is a master by doing. He'd be the first to encourage you to go ahead and get info, but most importantly, to grab some tools and get building! Nothing teaches like doing. I personally don't feel that sharing any secrets about any craft is bad. I'd rather learn how to make or do something myself any day, than watch it all on TV, or pay someone else to do everything for me.