Yes, with bamboo backed recurves, it's better, and easier, to run the end of the slat into the bandsaw, sawing a kerf down into the slat about 12". Then at the same time you glue on the bamboo backing, you glue a thin osage 12" lam into the kerf. The kerf makes the outer limb easy to bend into the recurve shape and the 12" lam and extra glue joint will keep the recurves from 'pulling out' with use.
Much easier, more predictable, and more reliable than ANY type of heat... for this type of bow.
It's all in Dean Torges' Hunting the Bamboo Backed Bow DVD.
Now, aside from that... as far as bending osage for a recurve... say I was going to make a SELFBOW osage recurve, or sinew backed recurve or something.... I would remove a bunch of wood before I attempted bending it. I normally get them roughly shaped and bending slightly, floor-tillered or so, THEN heat and bend. If it's dry wood, I use the heat gun... heat it slowly and bend it slowly. If it's relatively green wood, I steam it or boil it.
Perhaps you're just trying to bend too much wood. What are the dimensions?