I never worry about the ratio of tapers to parallels, I just focus on the total taper in each lam stack and the total lam stack thickness (no matter how you figure it). I typically use about .002 per inch total taper for a recurve, .003 per inch for my R/D longbows, and .006 for a hill style bow.
Of course depending on how thick the stack is, the number of lams varies...I never really use a single lam thicker than .100"