Drop me a note and I'll send you a copy of B. Jansen's Lam Stack Calculator. It's an Excel spreadsheet that has been available here at TG, but there have been problems with getting it to download. If you have the measurements of a given bow, you use it to calculate the stack specs for the draw weight you want of the same design.
You need to know the total stack thickness (to the nearest hundredth (.01) is good. And the measured draw weight of the current bow (to the nearest pound is good)
You plug in the current total lam stack, the current draw weight, and the desired draw weight, and shazam you get a new total stack for the desired draw weight. How you divide that stack thickness -- glass, and various lams -- is up to you.
After my own experience similar to yours. I decided it was worth my time and the cost of cheap materials to build a Prototype of a new design, not really caring what the draw weight is, and then use the calculator to get the specs for the bow I really want.
These days I built a prototype of the design I wan with the cheapest black glass (.03 or .04 for $9 a 72" stick from Binghams); and a cheap lam or two (I often use 1/8" pine lath from the Big Box store, or 1/16" ripped from a 2x4), and a piece of 2x6 for the riser if I'm making that kind of bow. So the Prototype sets me back maybe $30 in materials.
I don't really bother to finish it out. Just clean the junk off. I saw some simple pin nocks on the tips and use a piece of #36 Mason's line and make a bastard string to get the approximate brace height, then hang it from my tillering tree and put the scale on it.
Then it's off to the calculator to get the specs for the draw weight I really want. Now I can drool over the woods I really want and all the final details, knowing I'll be pretty darn close with the second one I build.