Jim, not sure where you are in Virginia but there is a really nice Archery gathering called the BALTIMORE Bowman traditional Classic on May 16. 17 and 18. there is a website for them and a thread for the event under the Trad Events. this would be one of the best and closest events you could attend. I would suggest spending the weekend there as they have free camping. Up until i moved out of the country i had done this event for 8 or 9 years in a row. its a great gathering.
If you are up for a bit of a ride there is the gathering at Denton Hill in Coudersport PA. Its taking place July 24 to 27. Check out the link provided for info.
http://www.skidenton.com/summer/ Denton Hill is probably the biggest event on the east coast boasting over 8000 visitors. I will be going myself this years with some friends and my oldest son. There will be lots to see and buy. Bring a pocket full of cash with ya to both places.
There is the Traditional Bowhunters of Virginia and Maryland that are great groups to join. You can find contact info on this site under the State trad Bowhunting Organizations. these clubs can provide you with local shoots where you can meet the members.
Good Luck, Jack