I have no idea how to make boo consistently flat... That's why them pieces have been sitting in the rafters for years... I would like to make a tri-lam one day...
Don't worry about getting it so consistent
Flatten the edge of a 2x4 about 12/16" long and use it to push on the boo nodes (2 at a time) while sanding on the belt sander, mark lines on the back of the boo every 6" or so and write the measurement's it needs to be at the marks and keep going until you get what you want.
You have to tiller the belly to get it bending correct anyway.
I would use 120 grit so you don't remove to much.
use a toothing plane or a hacksaw blade on the glue surface's before glue up