Hey Rando. For the most part, I switched to ladders a while ago...several years. I've had a lot of different ladders thru time. Maybe a total of 40 to 50. The cheap, 15-17' simple ladders have probably been my favorite overall. They are easy to set and to move. And they last several years. But they are not comfortable, and have a tiny platform that makes standing and turning a chore.
The more elaborate stands are more comfortable, and allow you to get next to the tree when standing. They have bigger platforms making movement easier. But they are heavier and far more difficult to set and switch locations. They also tend to be higher...not always.
Some of my favorites too, have been 2 person stands that I removed one ladder section, and put them in a giant tree, or a cedar. But they aren't light weight.
Sorry to have not been more direct to your wishlist for a stand. But these have been my experiences. I've been willing to compromise obviously. These problems are head scratchers.