Pull as much weight as you can shoot accurately.
You are testing limits with a 35 pound bow, if you hit bone and you have a 50% chance of doing that, you may not find the animal due to only one entrance hole and no exit and limited penetration.
Punching a hole through the other side of the animal will double your chances of recovering the animal.
This is not just my opinion, and I agree with this based on personal bowhunting experience, it is based on a study that Lone Star Bowhunters did on the wounding loss rate for whitetails. Ref: (Author: Roy Marlow bowhunting). The study also looked at trad hunters vs. compound shooters and found that the rate of wounding/ loss was the same.
Wheel shooters tend to attempt shots a longer distance than trad and increase the deer they loose, vs trad that take closer shots.
Bow weight: As stated as much as you can shoot accurately
BH: Sharp, sharp, sharp, no bullet point or wide, 3:1.
Arrow: 10-14 Grains per pound of bow weight.
You are always better off to get too much penetration than too little.