Just draw about 3 inches less. Just kidding. I'm interested to hear what he says. Personally, I don't think you'll be able to. I mean, look at your results. With the first arrow you talked about, your were able to get them to bare shaft with the 125 grain point. Same thing with the 5575/ 125 combo. That tells you right there that that spine and point combination is what works for you. It doesn't matter what I, Shawn, Rob or the Pope, says should work, you've seen with your own two eyes what does work.
Since those combos are too light, you'll have to look elsewhere. Adding weight tubes to those shafts might work, but I personally don't have any experience with them and don't know if they change the spine or not.
You, like me, happen to be one of the people that the Stu Miller calculator can be beneficial to. It has been a great predictor for me and has gotten me close to the spine I need and the weight I want. Sure there is some tweaking involved. But I can guarantee you, that you could use a human version of the calculator, and you'll need to do same amount of tweaking. The final verdict will only come when you actually shoot the arrow.
Before that calculator came along, I used some old tried and true formulas for finding the right wood spines I needed for my bows. I could get close, primarily because I shot the same style bows for years. There would still be some fine tuning needed. When I started shooting various types of bows, recurves, r/d longbows, horsebows, hill-style, etc, I had a very hard time getting the spines right. I ended up with fairly extensive test kits, both in wood and aluminum. I found the Easton charts not to be much help.
Then I started messing with carbon shafts. My first foray into that didn't last too long. This was before Tradgang, so my only source of advice was in pro shops geared toward compounds. More often than not, they had absolutely no idea what I needed, and more than once I bought a lot of stuff I couldn't use. I just stuck with aluminum, tolerating all of the bent shafts.
The last year, maybe longer, I've been fooling with Stu's calculator. It has been amazingly close to a most of the setups I've used over the years. That was my first test of it. To see if it concurred with what I knew worked. It did, for the most part. The first versions of it weren't as accurate as the current one, but they were still pretty close.
I did try to go with a lighter spine. I, too, had read that a lot of guys were really using way too much spine and that they would experience a joyous enlightenment if they'd just throw a few hundred grains on the ends of their arrows, or some such talk. Well, I tried it.
I added a lot of weight, it didn't work, and I ended up with 850 grain arrows. I went down in spine to keep the weight more reasonable. Same poor result. Now, like you, I've got a bunch of arrows that are too light in spine for me to get the weight I want.
But you want to know something interesting. I really don't use it for myself much anymore. I've been shooting Arrow Dynamics arrows out of several of my bows. These arrows aren't in the calculator. I'm not sure why, but it doesn't matter anyway. I'm able to take one of those shafts, stay within a certain point weight range and get them to fly beautifully. Yesterday, in fact, before bow died on me, I was shooting 4 arrows, each with a different weight point (125,145,175,200). They all hit to the same point of aim out to 20 yards. The only tuning I need to do with those shafts is a minor brace height adjustment.
They aren't nearly as finicky as any of the other shafts I have, and weigh enough that I can shoot normal weight, inexpensive broadheads and still have the total arrow weight I want. The Hammerheads, in particular are the best stump shooting, small game shaft I've ever used. (side note: there's one coming in the mail to you with the other shafts)
Anyway, I hope everything goes well for you.