Peter, I'm very Proud of Dustin and what he did with his life, a better man I have never met, but I only got to see that man for three weeks, see Dustin was a boy when he left here, much like many other soldiers sent off to war, but he came home a man, a changed man, I guess war does that to a fellow, but sadly 3 weeks after he returned from the dangers of that war in Iraq, he was killed on his way home one evening by a drunk driver,... hence my "Gold Star Father" status.. that means my son was killed while in service to our country, I'm including a picture of those Gold stars which were approved by an act of Congress on Aug.1st,1947,the purple one is the original,and used for many years in our military, the gold one, was meant to be the replacement, but both are now approved, and to wear one means that your father or mother,son or daughter, brother or sister, died in military service to our great country,..... so if you ever see this pin... please,Thank the person wearing it!, they truly know the cost of Freedom, and that cost will never, ever be forgotten .......Steve,Proud Gold Star Dad.