As for wax and grease, it would be wise to ask A & H:
They have specific wax recommendations, that match those of Black Widow and Big Jim for the same joint system.
The nasty issue is contamination from other materials such as dirt that the separated pieces can attract, even in a bow bag. The mating surfaces must be kept very clean. Each time the bow is disassembled the wax should be removed with alcohol and then stored with a dirt-proof cover over each joint. The wax is kept in a sealed container and only applied just prior to assembly. Contaminated grease will create problems. Care for the joint system like your eyes when using contact lenses. The Black Widow bow manual DVD includes a section showing both joint care and strength.
Regards,
Kevin