S&S, two thots -- I trust this isn't a high-fence operation? "Lodge" puts up red (as opposed to red-white-and-blue) flags. Assuming the best, I say to heck with nervousness. As Ed Abbey said: Never apologize, never explain. As with bullies back in school, those who give the hardest time to others are those who are most insecure. And depending on the culture of the Lodge, you might be happily surprised at being the hero there, with the training-wheelers far more curious and (secretly at least) envious than ornery. When younger, I guided for a great CO elk outfitter who was and is a trad bowhunter. During archery season he always tried to segregate camps of trads and wheelers, when possible. Most often "we" outnumbered "them."
But why not spend the Lodge fee money to go somewhere that you can camp and hunt free, on your own, with or without company of your own selection? The worst thing about an outfitted hunt, no matter where and what, is that we pay hard-earned money to be shut in with ... who knows what kind of people? Best luck, dave