I really like this post I got a great wife an two great boys they are14 an 9 an as a good dad we always seem to know whats right.Its all about balance I am a avid hunter myself an I can detect when I cross the line.it is a built in instint much like the ones we have when hunting.well I say its built in,being married for 20 years,maybe it really comes from getting hit with a frying pan,kicked,slapped,an sleeping on the couch that I have just learned over the years(just kidding) we dont have a couch.great post take care ED