I think you're under spined as well. Are you hearing a click at the shot? That would indicate the arrow shaft bouncing off the riser.
The larger diameter of your shafts could also be contributing to the problem. I.e., unless you change your aim, they'll be pointing more to the right than your narrower carbon shafts.
The fact that they're larger diameter than your carbons actually works in favor of a lower spine. The center of the arrow lies further from the center of the bow, producing the same effect as building out the side plate, meaning the arrow has to flex more to clear the riser. In effect, it requires less spine compared to a skinnier arrow. The problem here seems to be that it's just way too much less spine.
Dropping down to a 125 grain head will likely help. Cutting an inch off the length will also help bring them in line, and you don't need two inches of arrow overhanging the riser. But with a high performance string on a high performance bow, I think you're going to need woodies in the 55#-60# range as well.