Try as many used bows as you can and decide what you like in a bow first, then ordering a new one will be pretty easy. For starters, decide how you want the bow to look, that's the superficial part, but it matters, especially if you intend on keeping it a while. In this regard, bows are kinda like women- it has to have the curves and colors you like, then worry about how it shoots and sounds haha. Each style of bow has benefits, each style has sub-styles: longbow- hill, mild r/d, hybrid...recurve- working, static, etc. learn all you can about bow design. Longbows are inherently quieter, but depending on style you choose give up a little speed. Recurves can be blazers, but sometimes require a little more effort to silence, but pick the right one and you can often have them dang near as quiet as a longbow. Consider a hybrid- best of both worlds. Basically just research as much as you can, do Google image and forum searches to study pictures, go to some shoots, go to a trad show. Talk to some folks who will give their honest opinion.