It may seem crazy how stiff your arrows are, but that's what I've experienced as well. I've found that the spine softens up quickly with a longer arrow. I've got about the same setup and here's what I'm using.
My recurve is 45# @ 30". I'm using a 340 Beman Centershot (full length, 31.5" I believe) with the 80-grain insert and a 125gr point. It bareshafts perfectly at 20 yards and paper tunes bullet holes at 10 feet.
To give another example, I've had people tell me that my next setup is too stiff, but again, bareshafts and paper tunes perfectly. Here are the stats.
The recurve is 34# @ 30". I'm using 2213 Easton XX75 arrows, full length (32.5") with 125gr points.
The arrow spine charts always recommend a weaker arrow, so I always start tuning with the spine above what is recommended.