As for the glove issue, maybe look into some padded golf, cycling, weight lifting type gloves. These are often padded only in the palms areas and made of some nicer leathers.
You may also be able to find a Mechanix glove that you like either at Wal-Mart or a local hardware store. I've used them in the past as a thin layer of insulation on bitter cold days to keep me out of my thicker gloves. The leather on these is nice and soft/supple with a pretty decent grip that's similar to actual skin. I don't like shooting in gloves that have the little rubber gripper dots on them. I don't know why but it messes with my mind to have more traction sometimes and less sometimes so I look for gloves that feel the same as my bare hands when shooting.