I try to not talk myself through it, not always successfully. What I would rather do is to be physically aware of each stage of the shot sequence. Without attaching any words to it, I would like to be aware of predraw, drawing to anchor, holding, release, and follow-through. I think that by focusing on awareness rather than words, I can learn to feel what makes a good shot and what makes a bad shot. If I screw up a step, most commonly follow-through, that's when the words come, usually words where you would have to replace letters with asterisks in the appropriate places in this forum.