Bernard,
Over the last five years my life has been a real trial. I could write a book about all the difficulties me and mine have faced...many would find it heart-wrenching and walk away from it crying.
I don't see it that way, though. I live by the 4:8 Principle.(Phillipians 4:8 that is)
"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things"
When tragedy strikes us, we naturally go through a healing process that includes some negative thoughts.
I submit to you that by living your life following the instructions given in that short verse that contains so much, you can change your future.
By thinking of yourself as a unique and wonderful child of God, placed here for a purpose, placed here to lead others by example and to fulfill your destiny in achieving great things in work, relationships, family, children, business, whatever you choose to do- retrain yourself to see the good, the best, the possible, rather than dwelling in failures, disappointments, and tragedy. You will achieve more in your life that is positive than you probably now would even dare dream of.
I humbly submit to you this is possible..no matter what state of mind you are in today.
If you wish to discuss it further, you feel free to email me at
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