Man, George... you got it all happening here at one time, eh?
Good thing you've got your Faith to lean on as does your wife.
I'm sitting on the doorstep of a Dad with failing health now in nursing care and I know what lies ahead. Never able to prepare, but the only great comfort is that when a loved one leaves us, they stand before Christ and are made perfect and whole.
Prayers for peace for your wife and family as they deal with this loss.
Keep the Son in your eyes.