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Offline F Thomas

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #20 on: April 01, 2011, 03:17:00 AM »
Still praying for you from California.
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #21 on: April 01, 2011, 02:58:00 PM »
Good thing, Doug is that our God is an awesome God and can even handle us being mad at HIM!  :)

Emotions are running wild for you right now... changes in meds can wreck havoc...there are so very many good medicines, don't give up trying!

Worst thing you can do is to start beating down on yourself for what you perceive as "your screw-ups". Often conflicts go deeper than what is being observed at the surface.

Keep one foot in front of the other. Even try different doctors to get a fresh view. I've seen that in itself do wonders for folks.

Deal with daily issues and let the conflicts heal themselves. Keep an open heart and an ear toward His "still small voice" and allow the healing to come from within.

Relationships aren't easy. Even one with our Father at times can be a challenge. They take time.  Focus on healing your inner self and the other relationships that YOU can impact, will come with time!  God will show you how when the time is right...

Keep the Son in your eyes!
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #22 on: April 01, 2011, 04:04:00 PM »
Prayers sent for you.

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #23 on: April 01, 2011, 04:14:00 PM »
Back from the Dr. , he started me back on my meds and I have an appt with a psyciatrist come monday.

I sincerely appreciate everyone here. I did call my best friend finally about all of this and I am glad I did. 42 years together as friends and this is so bad I was embarrassed to even let him know. Rick thank you so much!

This still has me so bad it is moment to moment, and I thought I was a pretty strong type of guy.

I will say this to any body that is depressed. DO NOT EVER EVER EVER try and get tech support for a computer problem. Bad mistake!! That is my bit of humor for the day. I will have to work out the computer thing another time.

This Family here is great, Thanks again.
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #24 on: April 01, 2011, 07:18:00 PM »
Long as you can still crack jokes about computers and tech support, you've got hope, Son...and a lot of it!   :jumper:  

You might be a bit "down" but you're a long way from out when you can still see humor!

 :)

Glad to see that you're back on at least some type meds... some brain chemistry just doesn't have what it needs so we have to supplement!

doesn't make us "anything" but it does require some outside assistance! Period!

hang in there and good prayers for a successful MOnday session with the clinician!
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #25 on: April 01, 2011, 07:28:00 PM »
Doug, I'm glad to hear that you are getting help with this.

It is always difficult when something we have no control over has a profound impact on us.

Remember, you are not alone - ever.

God Bless

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #26 on: April 01, 2011, 10:23:00 PM »
"DO NOT EVER EVER EVER try and get tech support for a computer problem. Bad mistake!! That is my bit of humor for the day."
LOL!!!!!!!!!
But his bow will remain steady, and his hands will be skillful; because of the hands of the Mighty One of Jacob, because of the Shepherd, the Rock of Israel,  (Genesis 49:24 [NETfree])

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #27 on: April 01, 2011, 10:41:00 PM »
I've been in your shoes my friend. You must seek physical and spiritual help. We need you! Prayers sent!
Keeping the Faith!
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Offline doug g

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #28 on: April 03, 2011, 11:08:00 AM »
Thanks again for all your support.
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #29 on: April 28, 2011, 07:13:00 PM »
Well folks I am finally feeling quite a bit better. I am still not comfortable being around people that I know. Rick has taken me turkey hunting and that has helped me so much. I am enjoying my time in the woods.

I am doing most of my work from home and have gone to work a few times for short periods of time. When I start to feel uncomfortable I go back up stairs to our apartment.

The Tradgang Family has been great. It was a huge comfort knowing and hearing that others have been in my shoes, that I was not alone!

Your kind words and prayers have been greatly appreciated.

Thanks again to all of you.
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #30 on: April 28, 2011, 08:22:00 PM »
Glad for you! Prayers continue.
But his bow will remain steady, and his hands will be skillful; because of the hands of the Mighty One of Jacob, because of the Shepherd, the Rock of Israel,  (Genesis 49:24 [NETfree])

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #31 on: April 28, 2011, 08:22:00 PM »
Thank you, Lord!!! Great news. Benson is home and Doug is feeling the rays of hope.

Again, Thank you, Jesus!!!

Doug, some days are diamonds and some are just freakin rocks! Cherish the diamonds and make a rock garden on the bad ones!  :)

The Woods have been God's Cathedral for a long, long time to many of us who tread this blue marble...

Eaze yourself into a bit more routine daily and don't try to do this without some professional help and coaching...

there is a light at the end of the tunnel and no, it's not a train coming!  :)

Keep the Son in your eyes!
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #32 on: May 12, 2011, 07:52:00 AM »
Just wanted to give everyone an update. I am finally starting to feel much better. I have finally returned to work after being off for alomost 6 weeks. Still not 100% but in a much better palce than I was when I first posted.

Still seeing my Doctors, but I really am doing better.

I am so happy that I reached out to you folks, it really helped knowing that many others have gone though the same sort of thing. Depression can make one feel so isolated and self loathing it is unbelievable.

Thanks to each and every one of you for your prayers and thoughts, what a great group of people!

Respectfully,

Doug
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #33 on: May 12, 2011, 09:49:00 AM »
Super glad for you Doug. It's hard to believe you're priceless when you're under that crap but it's the truth. Keep going and growing as prayers continue.
But his bow will remain steady, and his hands will be skillful; because of the hands of the Mighty One of Jacob, because of the Shepherd, the Rock of Israel,  (Genesis 49:24 [NETfree])

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #34 on: May 12, 2011, 05:57:00 PM »
Ditto on Benbow's comments!  God don't make Junk... we make ourselves out to BE junk.

Liar, liar pants on fire!

Prayers of thanksgiving that you're on the upswing! Keep on keepin on!
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #35 on: May 12, 2011, 06:07:00 PM »
Thanks so much Doc and Galen! How are you coming along yourself Galen?
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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #36 on: May 15, 2011, 07:42:00 AM »
Doug
Conintue prayers from Ga.

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Re: I am embarrassed about asking. (Update)
« Reply #37 on: May 16, 2011, 04:41:00 PM »
Doug, hope you continue on this road.
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