David,
Thank you for your advise and insight. I do not rotate my shifts. I am on permanent Mid shift and work from 2300-0700. When I first entered on duty with CBP in 1999, we were on rotating shifts, 2 weeks on days, 2 weeks on eves and 1 month on mids and trust me that sucked, you could never get a sleep pattern, was so glad when they went to permanent shifts.
As for matching my off schedule with my work, kinda hard to do when you have a wife and family, as you do not want to be sleeping while they are awake and vice versa, does not make for a good relationship.
Peace will come as HE is watching over me and will not give me more than I can endure.