Scott, I have no experience with the type of forge you are using.
But I do know a couple zillion guys who build and use the vertical forges on a daily basis.
I have two of them and my 12" comes up to welding heat (2300) in a handful of minutes.
The key is the heat entering the bottom of the forge, in addition to the blower, which gives a lot more control and less fuel pressure needed.
Heat entering the bottom totally eliminates the need to be careful of overheating from direct contact with the flame.
Also key is proper insulation. You are heating the blade by radiant heat from the forge - NOT the flame!
A vertical forge is just so much easier to control from all the problems I have seen just like the ones you mention here.
If you can find another forge body and stand it on end and get a small blower, your problems would cease.
I know you've been getting some other advice on the other forum and they mention your kiln.
They have their place as well. I use my heat treat oven weekly for spherodizing and and austenizing large 5160 blades.
But my forging, damascus making and MOST of my thermal cycling/normalizing/hardening procedures are done in my vertical forges and I am in total control of the out-come.
You already have some of the piping and other supplies needed to build one.
I'd help you in any way that I can.
This is my 12" for Damascus making and larger blades, but I have an 8" that I use for forging and hardening hunter size blades.
They even use LESS fuel pressure than the one you are using now.
I've heard sooooooooooooooo many complaints from users of that type forge, and I have literally never heard complaints about this one.