You really shouldn't be bending it without knowing about how heavy it is. Never bend it too far when it is too heavy. And never brace it until it is about 10# below your target weight at about 16-20". That's what causes set.
Also, a certain design, ie. length width, style, is better for a certain weight. Start with your draw length and you will determine your draw length. Then your draw weight and that will determine the width.