I ran an archery club for 15 years. At first my enthusiasm for archery made it an enjoyable experience. As the years passed and the work load increasingly fell on my shoulders the fun became a drudgery.
We maintained an indoor range for the city and the way the range was abused by John Q Public was appalling. The public bathroom was about 100yds away so people urinated in the corners and behind the backstop, left cups of urine sitting around, gallons of tobacco spit in the trash cans and on the concrete floor, someone even took a dump on a piece of card board and placed it in the trash. Of course cleaning up the place fell on my shoulders most of the time.
The thing that finally got caused me to walk away was the following;
We held tournaments on Saturday evening on a ball field near the indoor range and had to pick up the trophies by noon on Friday. I was working evenings and lived about 20 miles from the trophy shop. My relief didn't come to work on Thursday evening so I doubled over on midnight shift.
When I got off work the next morning I called a member who lived across the street from the trophy company and asked him to pick up the trophies. I heard the same response from him I had heard so many times in the past from other members when I asked for a little help,"I don't think I will have time". We are talking across the street and 5 minutes tops. Strangely, this same member always had time to attend every tournament as a shooter.
I went to bed, slept 2 hrs and drove over to pick up the trophies and got back just in time to go back in to work. Two hours sleep in the last 36 hours made a light go off in my head, that was it, I was done with the club and walked away. This club, with a 40 year history, folded within 2 years because none of the remaining members were willing to work like I did. I guess they "just didn't have the time".
The above is the reality of running a club, very rewarding at times but the reality is if you step up and look like you want the reins, everyone will sure step back and give them to you. The more involved you become the more they distance themselves from you to minimize their involvement.