I'm not sure about the length either. That's just what my brother told me. I am also not totally sure about the 45#, although I'm pretty sure she can handle 40#. She is awful short, though. Maybe around 5' or so, but no taller than my wife who is 5'3". The problem is that this is supposed to be a surprise, so I'm not sure how to go about figuring this stuff out.
Pat, that's what I was asking about, but probably didn't word it right. I can't remember if its 3# per inch, or 2# per inch of draw. I suppose it depends on design also, but I'm just looking for a guess-timate. I'm thinking if I shoot for around 55-60# at 28", that should be close to 40-45#@21", if that's her draw.
I guess I've got a lot more figuring out to do yet. :\\