I purchase all my sanding products from klingspoor, or super grit. Quality products and fair prices.
I generally sand bamboo and veneer with 60 because I have seen some lines using 40.
It is rare but it happens however I have an oscillating wide belt sander so instead of lines, it will leave a little wave.
Probably has only ever happened in maple and myrtle though.
When staining, I will sand to 120 or I can detect lines...don't stain much other than maple and this shows lines bad.
If sanding glass, I use 80g.
These are not hard set rules, but work for me.
I have no kown delams due to this... infact, I can't even remember the last glue failure. Not that my weeks go without their own sets of issues
BigJim