So, like many of you, I have taught my kids and in my case, even my wife to be hunters. This of course included a lot of shooting and trips out into the woods as I tried to teach them about nature and animals. You go thru everything in like a crash course at first but then you slow down a little and go over the important things more and more as you try to get them to remember them.
Of course most of it is in one ear and out the other until they have reason to retain it. But the slow process begins to show the rewards of them retaining enough for you to feel safer in the woods with them. Things like snakes here in the south, is something that you hopefully do automatically but not always. I usually make them wear rubber boots into the woods for both the snakes and scent control. In my wife's case, to keep her out of the poison oak.
My son was going into the woods at a very young age and I had to really keep an eye on him. He just wouldn't listen or mind so he was always getting into trouble. His name was David but I had considered changing it to Dennis several times. So this one day, I was scouting this ridge top out and he was with me of course. David was 5 or 6 then and very noisy in the woods and, he didn't watch for snakes at all.
So, I am looking ahead to some early rubs in this small gap flat as we walk this faint game trail. I spotted the small copperhead just off of the trail about ten feet and it is headed for the same trail to cross it. I step ahead a few feet and stop, David sees me stop and so does the same. I am really watching the snake and him, he is gawking into the sky, bored stiff. As I watch, the snake is headed straight for his rubber boot and is actually beginning to crawl over it.
I quietly ask David if he had been watching out for snakes and he of course immediately says "yes dad, I am." Then he makes a half hearted effort to glance around just in time to see the copperhead coming off his boot. Suddenly David comes to life as he kicks the snake away and hollers out loud in alarm, "SNAKE!" I act totally surprised and won't do anything to help him.
The copperhead is doing everything that it can do to get away while David does the famous snake dance. David is now yelling "Copperhead! Copperhead!" non stop as I do my best not to laugh. As we watch the snake crawl away, he begins asking why I didn't kill it. I quietly explain that it was way out here in the woods and no threat to us. I also told him that it was doing its best to get away from us, not to hurt us. And besides, he had his high top rubber boots on.
I took the moment to explain that a big ground rattler would be about the same size and they are always very grumpy. Grumpy meaning that they are pretty much strike happy. I then told him that he had better start keeping an eye out for the snakes, a bigger copperhead or a big rattler would get him for sure. So, a life lesson learned that he would never forget. Yeah, I had to get him to look up after that to show him things.
He learned that we didn't kill snakes just to kill them. He also learned that many times I would catch the snake (copperheads and rattlers) around the house to take to another place miles away to release. After he got older, about 14 or so, I taught him how to catch the poisonous snakes with just a stick to pin their head down gently. Now he is teaching his two young sons about them. Some lessons in life have to be learned the hard way.