well David most of all have fun shooting your bow.
I generally start out by getting a new string, check the nock fit on string, setting nock height, get the brace height at optimal position, and then bare shaft as needed. hope this helps. As far as silencers and such that is personal touch if you do want them they should be added before you tune the arrows.
My personal favorite is wood and then carbon not a fan of alum.
Are your broadheads glue on or screw in??? If they are screw in you can start with carbon. If they are glue on you can go with wood or get steel adapters and you can get a heaver carbon...