I'm assuming you're right-handed? If so, I would agree with Mo; there's no way your shafts could be too stiff. But that's the indication you're getting, so it must be a false indication.
Just for fun, why don't you take all the weights out of your bare shaft, and shoot it with just a 125 grain point. That should be about right for your setup, and would be good for target shooting, since it would be a lot faster, flatter arrow than you're currently using.
Later, if you want to load up an arrow with more weight for hunting, you would probably be better off with a GT 5575. You could load a lot of weight on the front of those before you would overload it. The problem with loading weight on your 3555 is that once you get a true indication, about the only place you'll be able to load on weight is on the back and you won't have a sufficiently front-weighted arrow to get good arrow flight.
I don't know what your nock point is, so I can't tell if it is too high or too low. You can get a nock high indication either way: either a true nock high, or a false nock high from the arrow bouncing off the shelf (which could also contribute to your false nock right). You should probably start with a nock point of about 3/4", which should give you a true nock high, and work your way down about 1/16" at a time until you eliminate it.
On the other hand, if you're left-handed, the indication you're getting is that the arrow shaft is too weak, which is probably correct.