Wow, thanks alot guys! The suggestions so far will help a ton. You guys gave me a lot of options to look into, Thanks!
As far as poundage is concerned, I'm gonna try to hook up with a buddy of mine and do some family shooting. He has a wife and two kids, so he should have a pretty good range of draw weights to let her try out.
Gregg, you brought up another question I didn't realize I had. Aluminum v. wood?! I shoot wood, but I know it would probably be easier to get straight and tuned arrows if I went with aluminum for her. But I have no idea how to buy aluminum arrows.
Diameter, wall thickness, spine weight, field tip weight, length? Agh, it'll be like learning a whole new school of thought if I go that way... Then if she misses and bends one, it's no good!
I guess she would break a few woods, but they seem to be a little more forgiving when you miss than aluminum?
P.S. What does ILF stand for, so I can google it?