Snakebit, besides everything said here already, dont forget there are many different traditional shooting techniques. I personally shoot point of aim better than any other method. Some guys use the Asbell lift and release the second you hit anchor, some guys gap shoot, etc.
So dont give up on Trad till you exhaust the different styles.. I know guys ten years ago who would never consider any other technique than pure instinctive looking and shooting. Now half of them are string walking and kicking butt at every 3D shoot.
Find which technique you are best at and then hammer away. When I broke down and tried point of aim, it was like an instant switch went off. Cured all my problems, nice solid anchor, back tension, consistant anchor, extreme concentration on target, target panic was obliterated. For you it may be another method.
If you're not having fun, change tactics for sure.