TFM,
In general, I agree with you. Consumer debt and materialism are major problems in our country. Likewise, looking to someone else to provide for ones needs/wants is a serious problem too.
James is as strong as a lighter knot now and I had been thinking about buying him a hunting weight bow for his B'day (7/2) - but not a new, semi custom, $700 one! When he said "Dad, I REALLY like this bow and I am willing to work for it" I smiled and saw teaching opportunities on multiple levels
The lessons:
What it feels like to be in debt :(
Pride in earning something special on his own
How financing works. Cash is always best, but most folks will finance a house or automobile one day. We sat down with paper & pencil and talked about amortization
The deal Jim offers is basically $25 for the privilege of paying over time (3.6% "interest") - not too bad!
Buying value. A car is pretty much worthless in 10 years... James can shoot this bow until he is a grey hair & then hand it down to a son or daughter.
I am sure there will be other lessons too. Rest assured, I am not not teaching my kids to wallow in debt (Liz is saving for a car and was in on the interest lesson). Hopefully, they are learning to be self sufficient and not expect Mom & Dad to pay for everything
I feel blessed to have a son who would rather buy a bow than a bunch of video gaming junk!!