Definitely no right or wrong, to each his own. I've always used a glove, tried the bare fingers, but didn't work at it to try to develop the callous necessary.
Just got a new tab from 3Rivers, the Fred Eichler model after reading you could (maybe) get a smoother release. We'll see.
I just like trying different things in this pursuit.I'm pretty new, 3 years in with nothing dead yet, but loving the whole thing. To some of you guys who've been at it for a while, some issues have been solved. Obviously I'm still working on my release...