Oregon Okie,
Please elaborate, which AD shafts are you trying and out of what bows and what is the draw weight of the bows? I have never had a bow I could not use an AD arrow on, most forgiving shaft I have ever used and is all I use now. Based on the bows you list in your signature line, an AD Hammerhead lite or AD Trad lite full length, if you truly draw 31" should be the ticket with 100 gr brass insert and 200-300 gr head.
Out of my 61# Cari-Bow Slynx longbow, AD trad or AD Hammerheads, 31.5" with 100 gr brass insert and 300 gr heads, my 55# Schafer revurves, AD Hammerhead lites, 31.5" with 100 gr brass insert and 300 gr heads. same out of my 52# Cari-Bow Silver Fox longbow. I can even shoot the AD Trads out of the lower weight bows. Also can shoot AD Nitro Stinger, Green, Gold and Orange out of them all.