I can easily recall when carbon arrow shafts were viewed as some kind of nasty joke being played on bowhunters, and 'traditional' bowhunters looked at them much as you would a week old carp...unfavorably. Very interesting to see how far both carbon shafts and bowhunters have come since then. Go to any large 'traditional' bow event and see the percentage of carbon arrows present. They have absolutely become part of the normal trad scene, and most arrow vendors carry them or their components right along with wood and aluminum.
As for personal preference, I'm for it! Follow your heart, your tastes and make yourself happy. There is no conflict, unless someone believes their way and choices are somehow best (or better) and are unhappy if others don't see it that way. I've shot all major types of shafts. The only thing I actually prefer about wood is its appearance. If I've got a big somethin' walking my way and you give me a choice, I'll be nocking a stout carbon and paying zero attention to its aesthetics. I want performance at that moment.