Chad, I understand your dilemma and see how it makes your craft a pain in the rear.
Whip’s opening comments express my feeling:
“Interesting discussion, and yes, I think it would be nice if all bowyers followed a standard and we all knew exactly what that meant. But my gut tells me most custom bowyers don't care all that much about AMO. Heck, in some circles "AMO" has become more an adversary with their support of high tech, crossbows, etc. A lot of the trad community don't give a rip what AMO thinks.”
I will add, the glass bows I build are measured and marked the same way my selfbows are measured and marked, nock to nock along the back of the bow. I measure them this way mainly because it is not how the AMO does it. I don’t want to be associated with that organization in any way shape or form, and therefore refuse to use any standards they set for equipment. Want to know how I really feel about the AMO?
Regarding marking the brace height and string length on the bow, they will both vary with the individual bow, string material, nock material (loop length) and who and how they shoot the bow. Anybody who buys one of my glass bows is told in the warranty letter a brace height range (usually a ¾” range) where the bow normally shoots the smoothest. When they receive the bow it has an endless loop AstroFlight string that is twisted to the brace height where the bow shoots smoothest for me. After that it is up to the new owner to adjust and find the brace height they prefer, and then order strings accordingly.