I don't think you are overthinking it at all. If you enjoy reading and learning things about traditional archery, there's a world of information out there waiting for you. Some of the things we read are helpful and some aren't, but it is hard to know what will be helpful and what won't in advance.
There are two types of spine: static and dynamic. Static spine is what is measured by the Easton chart. Different companies measure static spine different ways. For example, Gold Tip might state that an arrow has a spine of 3555, meaning it can be used by bows from 35-55 pounds (this is not always true, by the way, and will vary among bows). However, most of them will also give you a conversion to the Easton measurement, which is becoming the standard. For example, a 3555 Gold Tip arrow has a .500 spine. It is useful to know that if a .500 spine arrow from one company works well for you, a .500 spine arrow from another company should also work well.
Then there is dynamic spine, which is what the arrow does after being shot. If you have a 30" draw, and want a 31" arrow, you will want an arrow with a stiffer dynamic spine than someone with an otherwise identical bow who shoots the same poundage with a 28" draw who wants a 29" arrow, because a longer arrow weakens dynamic spine, as does increasing point weight. That is why Gold Tip can mark its arrow with such a broad weight range, for example, from 35-55 pounds. Sure, you could shoot that arrow in a 35 pound bow, but you might have to put 200 grains on the front to get the arrow to fly right, or you could shoot it in a 55 pound bow, but you might have to put a 100 grain point on the front to get it to fly right, which is probably the opposite of what you would like to do.
Anyway, there is a lot to learn about static and dynamic spine, and for me, it is part of the enjoyment of archery to learn these things. Traditional archery is a big tent, and if you don't like to get bogged down in the details, that's fine too.