Brian, I have small hands as well, but I kind of went the other way with Hill grips. I've been experimenting with making them thinner and deeper in an attempt to find a repeatable straight grip. I've had the best luck so far with a thin, deep wedge that rides my lifeline, while the center pads of my fingers press the back of the bow into my hand. (It's that "suitcase" grip that Mr Hill talked about.)
I have been gluing strips of leather to the back of my straight grips to build up depth, and then sanding them down to that narrow wedge. My current Wesley Specials have been modified to a 1" X 2-3/16" wedge and a 1" X 2-1/4" wedge. I am awaiting the arrival of a Tembo which has been ordered with a 1" X 2-3/8" wedge grip.
I will be happy to post my impressions of this experiment after a rigorous field test and evaluation.
By the way, if you are a shepherd, small, strong hands are a tangible asset when it is time to pull lambs! They also apply more energy to a specific target, (due to their reduced surface area), with each punch. They are also of great benefit when circumstances require the use of a Gov't issued Colt M-1911-A1, .45 ACP, with an, as issued, short trigger. Experience, in all of the above, has taught me not to fret too much about having small hands; they aren't necessarily "girlish"!!!
Good luck,
Bob