nate, i couldn't agree more with you, sir.
there are those who will ask for a bow built by model, length and draw weight, with no other input. and they may be happy hunters with said bow, and kill tons of game for decades. or too soon, as the newness wears off, the bow becomes a dog to them, and it ends up in the classifieds. either way, more input to and from the bowyer is always a good thing. there is always the element of luck with a new bow, no matter who the bowyer or what the parameters. less chances are taken when you can work with a knowledgeable bowyer.
and, imo, a specific type of stick bow (i.e., hill straight or backset or string follow, or mild r/d or aggressive r/d, etc) does not dictate a specific shooting form be required, in order to reach its maximum potential.
however, if specific stick bow parameters are employed, as they apply to the archer in question, there is far greater a chance the resulting bow will be a better shooter.