I used to work in a bow shop (BowTech dealership) for years as a side job throughout college and I've fletched mine, and my friends arrows now for years. ...15 years later, I haven't found a glue I like better than Gorilla Super Glue (blue lid). I've used it on wraps, bare shafts, and dipped shafts with excellent results.
I am like you in that I am part of the small minority that dislikes fletch tape. I've yet to have a known glue failure with this stuff after 100's of arrows. Prep correctly, and this stuff works fantastic.