I can't tell you how much I appreciate this thread. I really thought that I was the only one that these things happen to on a frequent basis...
The encouragement comes at a perfect time, too. Just last week I got my first (and second) shot on a public land Oklahoma bear. I've been hunting them for around 6 or 7 yrs. now, and just now managed my first real opportunity. I missed, cleanly on both shots...
I had a little guy come into my shooting lane, giving me a perfect broadside shot at around 7 yards. When I took the shot, I immediately knew that I'd missed because as he ran all over the place, my string from the string tracker stayed still. After running several different directions at full speed, he ended up back in my shooting lane at around 10 yds. away. I took my 2nd arrow & let fly. He jumped like he'd been hit, and ran straight away from me & down the hill. I managed to stay in my seat for a full 20 min. while I got my hands to stop shaking, but could wait no more. I followed the string to the 1st arrow and then looked around for the 2nd, which I found about 10 feet away & slightly closer to my chair. My heart sank as I looked over the arrow & found it to be completely free of blood or even fur. Don't get me wrong, I'm extremely grateful that I didn't wound him, but I thought that I had made a better shot the 2nd time. The only thing that I can think of is that I just didn't pick a spot and shot at the whole bear. Needless to say, I was very dejected and began to question myself and whether or not I should even be in the woods. But I'm refusing to let negativity rule my life & decision making. So I will practice some more, and be back out for deer for the rest of our season. And do my best to not make the same mistakes.
I just wanted to let you all know how encouraging it can be for others, sometimes, when you are candid about your mistakes. I appreciate it very much.