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Author Topic: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help  (Read 1030 times)

Offline Izzy

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #20 on: November 06, 2007, 07:27:00 PM »
I booked a lion hunt for this coming January.About a month later the price went up from 2500.00 to 3500.00.It was like I made 1000.00 bucks.My wife didnt really agree with me but heck it makes a lot of sense to me.If you keep track of them they dont go down in price, they usually go up 500.00 to 1000.00 a year. In B.C. theyre already in the 6000.00 range and now the Canadian dollar is beating ours so hunt as soon as you can.
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #21 on: November 06, 2007, 07:41:00 PM »
Ask her to come along.

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #22 on: November 06, 2007, 09:31:00 PM »
If you can swing it and she's fit, by all means take her along. Looking at a big cat in a tree will change you both. You can decide to take or not take the cat after making the tree, the hunt is over at that point.

I have taken lots of cats, some as a sport hunter and some as a job. The day I don't have emotions for the top predator in that tree is the day I quit.

I choose to think of it this way. I have about as much controll over my reaction to the joy of the hunt and the chase as the big cat does. I do have control over the taking of the cat when sport hunting. For years it was catch and release, now with the people who understand the least about these cats controling the management of them (the voter) The result is the following.

In select units in this state, 40% of the cats in the unit must die per year for 3 years. I don't like it, but this is game management by emotion rather than science. The Pros, our game managers have had to swallow a bitter pill the voters gave them. To stop the downward spiral of our deer & elk herds they do management of the cats.

I hope you get to go on your hunt,and your wife also. The lion, puma, cougar or catamount is our finest big game animal in my opinion and everyone should experiance his gaze before they leave this earth.

Sorry for rambling, RS

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #23 on: November 06, 2007, 10:37:00 PM »
Well, guess i will through my 2 cents in here as well.

Our legislature has just considered a Mtn. Lion season here in Oklahoma. Talk to the biologists, they have no firm idea how many there are in the state, no clue as to the recrutment in the population (how many are born each year) and without any data about their impact on the prey populations. BUT BY GOLLY WE OUGHT TO BE ABLE TO HUNT THEM!..they say.

I got no problem with hunting big cats, looks like a great experience. Yet, I have quite a few other dream hunts on the list above it, and a meager pocket book. For those who can and will, more power to ya. Send me a picture!

What does concern me is the idea that if we DON'T hunt them terrible things will happen to this and the other game animals we love. No...not really. Yes, big cats eat a lot of deer and elk. But they have been doing that for thousands of years. If uncontrolled predator numbers depleted prey numbers to levels below sustainability, we would have run out of prey...and predators for that matter... long before game managment agencies were ever created.

This is the idea of carrying capacity. If left alone (this is a big if, I know) populations will find an equillibrium in balance with their food source. We have changed the landscape in almost all parts of this county to benifit the macro-mammal grazers/browsers (deer, elk etc.). So, we have more than we did (not counting the dark market hunting days at the turn of the century). We should expect to have more of the critters that eat the critters that are doing well.

Here lies what I have been so ineptly getting at. As hunters we LIKE to have big numbers of the things we hunt, so a carrying capacity above what would be likely without managment is desired, BUT the corresponding increase in predator numbers is LESS desireable (I don't want big cats, grizzer bears and wolfs in my walmart parking lot either!!). These are what are called SOCIAL CARRYING CAPACITIES. Nothing wrong with them, it's how things are. Population controll on predators regaurdless of species is for OUR benifit, not other game populations.

We don't appologize for enjoying hunting, we don't really need shakey reasoning for hunting big cats. The populations are healthy, they can sustain controlled harvest, it's legal... go forth and hunt!

As far as what I can tell ya about helping with the wife thing, what is more important, a happy wife or a cat hunt? (This is where I throw in the qualifier: NO, I am not married...anymore.)

Good Luck how ever it goes!
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #24 on: November 07, 2007, 07:57:00 AM »
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Originally posted by OkKeith:



What does concern me is the idea that if we DON'T hunt them terrible things will happen to this and the other game animals we love. No...not really. Yes, big cats eat a lot of deer and elk. But they have been doing that for thousands of years. If uncontrolled predator numbers depleted prey numbers to levels below sustainability, we would have run out of prey...and predators for that matter... long before game managment agencies were ever created.

This is the idea of carrying capacity. If left alone (this is a big if, I know) populations will find an equillibrium in balance with their food source..

OkKeith
Which is true and the same point that anti hunters make (which is also true btw) that hunting is not "necessary" for game management as we claim, that if all hunting were ended today, yes there would be an explosion of game animals for awhile, but then nature would take over and disease, mass starvation and a increase in natural predators (bear, lions, wolves) would reduce the herd to the carrying capacity of the land for all the critters. All true.

However since we do like to hunt, and like to see lots of game when we are hunting we have choices to make. One is inevitably to control our competition (the big predators)or see less game when we are hunting...or quit hunting.

Tough choices
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #25 on: November 07, 2007, 08:30:00 AM »
This will stir some up but the way I see it, the chase is a very exciting part of hunting anything.  Lions or coons, you have to follow the dogs to the tree and get there before the critter jumnps and runs again.  Now, shootin one out of a tree is like huntin deer in a pen which it seems that most do not care for.  There's nothing to it.  It can't really go anywhere and if you are a decent shot, the animal is going to die.  If you want to make it real sporting, after it's treed, climb up after it with a spear or knife and give it a chance.  Shootin one from a tree would be just like shootin one caught in a trap.  I guess it is about the only way to manage the numbers on these animals as they are seldom seen unless they are up a tree.  Anyway, don't mean to offend, and good luck on your hunt.

Rob

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #26 on: November 07, 2007, 08:39:00 AM »
Last January I had the opportunity to go on a Mt lion hunt in Arizona. It was anything but an easy hunt. Also, lion meat is some of the best wild game I have ever eaten. Here's the story if you care to read it.

 http://tradgang.com/noncgi/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=1;t=041179;p=1
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #27 on: November 07, 2007, 08:42:00 AM »
Can't argue with you Okkeith, what you say is pretty much the way it will go. The only thing is the highs and lows in the numbers is not much fun to watch for folks who really value wildlife.
I know, thats emotion again.

Game management helps stabalize those big pendulum swings. I beleive we are gonna be stuck with game management and not be able to let nature take her course as long as we as people keep hogging the best habitat and our numbers remain as large as they are. Maybe we can go back to being hunter gather'es and be part of those big number swings.

Don't know if this will help a guy get out on a hunt or not.
just my 2 cents

Offline Ray Hammond

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #28 on: November 07, 2007, 09:11:00 AM »
I don't recall ever asking my wife if its OK for me to do something in the field- spending money on a trip - yes...where to go and what I can take on that trip? Never.

I don't get to tell her what she can or cannot do on a cruise, or how to shop or what to buy/not to buy at the mall.

I suspect that's why our marriage has done so well for 30 years. Maybe I'm kidding myself..but if you have to justify taking a legal game animal to your spouse in order to be able to do it? Not sure that will end there...sort of like gun control...right now its machine guns, later it'll be more until they get what they really want..no guns at all.

I think your hunting is eventually doomed if you let this go without a real resolution. Just my 02 cents. Thats an opinion, you know, and everyone has one of those...
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #29 on: November 07, 2007, 09:20:00 AM »
Then there is the point that mountain lions kill people on occasion.
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wad frae mony a blunder free us, And foolish notion."
 
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #30 on: November 07, 2007, 09:55:00 AM »
If its leagle whats not far about. If it were me I would sit my wife down and tell her I was going to save my extra money to go on a lion hunt. When I got enough saved I would book my hunt and I would go. Then I would tell her to get over it. She would get over it or die very unhappy. But I can say things like this because my wife loves for me to hunt what I want when I want.
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #31 on: November 07, 2007, 10:04:00 AM »
I didn't read all the posts but I have to ask do you tell her how to dress? Do you have to approve what style of shoe she buys? Me and the wifey discuss all purchases but that doesnt translate into her having the right to say no just because she doesnt like the idea.. The only question that should be an issue is can you afford it.. If money is not an issue than it shouldn't matter if your hunting ants or antelope..
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #32 on: November 07, 2007, 11:18:00 AM »
I have to agree with RoughCountry and Mickey that nature's way of balance is spike/crash/spike/crash with most populations never fully recovering from the crashes.  It's not the smooth "carrying capacity" model we've come accustom to.  During those spikes we'd have increased animal/vehicular collisions with the resulting loss of human life, human/cat encounters (more loss of human life) and property damage (crop, landscape, etc) as the deer numbers soar.  Natural order isn't as euphoric as most people romantisize it to be.  It's brutal and animals don't die a quiet death under clean sheets with family surrounding them.  

As far as your hunt is concerned;  if your reasons for hunting the cat aren't enough to persuade your wife I doubt anyone will come up with something else that will.  What you do from that point on is up to you.

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #33 on: November 07, 2007, 11:40:00 AM »
All arguments are good but the main one comes back to what momma wants to happen.  I agree with Mr. Rudolph.  Be nice and you won't have to duck the skillet.  Maybe she'll even say okay!!
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #34 on: November 07, 2007, 12:27:00 PM »
Alla ya'll are right on with your comments about my previous post. Carrying Capacity is really only a construct people use to get their head around what happens in real life.

The mere fact that we use things like human encounters and how we feel about the way wildlife meets it's end only strengthens the importance of social carrying capacities. There are still spikes and crashes in all populations of wildlife (some we don't see, some we don't really care about). People (all people...as in humans in general) have monkeyed with the landscape to the point that managment is not only wise, but a nessisary activity to conserve not just our wildlife resources but ALL natural resources. We don't truly manage resources, we manage access and use of them.

The poor fella who only wanted help with his disscussion between him and his wife is wondering how the heck Malthusian population dynamics and geo-political habitat change disscusions got in the mix. That'll teach him to try and get interpersonal relationship advice from THIS bunch again!

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #35 on: November 07, 2007, 12:46:00 PM »
Good one OK, that one got me laughing.  :D   Thanks, needed that   :)

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #36 on: November 07, 2007, 01:21:00 PM »
Ray Hammond said what I was going to say and my marriage has lasted 42 yrs.+  :D    :D    :D
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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #37 on: November 07, 2007, 01:37:00 PM »
Does Any one know of a decently priced lion hunt in the U.S  ??? Please post or P.M me.

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #38 on: November 07, 2007, 02:39:00 PM »
If I was going to book a lion hunt, the outfitter I'd most like to hunt with would be Warner Glenn, Douglas, Ariz.
It's a horseback ,dry ground hunt in very rugged country. Not sure of his prices but he's been at it for years.

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Re: Wife Vs. Mt.Lion discussion-need help
« Reply #39 on: November 07, 2007, 04:03:00 PM »
Some marriages are different. My wife won't tell me what to buy, what not to buy ,and vice versa, but we discuss major expenditures. Every one of them. A lion hunt would certainly go in the major expenses column and up for discussion (so do new motorcycles    ;)   ).After all we entered into our marriage 34 years ago as a 50/50 partnership and that's how it has remained. 1/2 of the money I would spend on a hunt/motorcycle etc would be hers, therefore she deserves some input into the purchase. Fortunately for me neither one of us are spend thrifts and I don't have to worry about her spending thousands on something I don't know about and she doesn't have to worry about me doing that either. If either one of us wants something that costs a lot we sit down and discuss how that can be accomplished financially.

If I got a second job, or did side jobs, specifically for the purpose of saving for hunts/bikes, that of course would be different and the proceeds would be used entirely at my disgression.
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